The safety of children
is our number one priority – no exceptions. Our staff carefully screens each volunteer Big, board member, staff and
others who work directly with the children in our programs. As a volunteer Big,
it will be your role to make sure the relationship is healthy and that you are making
good judgments about the child’s safety on outings. Here’s how you can further promote safety:
· Follow
all organizational policies, procedures and ground rules at all times – no exceptions.
· Spending
too much time with your Little too early in the match can set an unhealthy
precedent for the relationship. Discuss plans and expected time with your Match Advocate.
· Obtain
parent/guardian permission for all activities. Be aware that some parents may
not be comfortable with your suggestions, so we expect that you will comply
with parent decisions. Talk to your BBBS Match Advocate when you have
questions.
· Always
stay with your Little; do not leave them alone or with someone else.
· Do not
use alcohol or other drugs before or during activities.
· Do not
use physical discipline or yell at your Little.
· Don’t
take others, including your family or friends or the Little’s siblings or
friends, on any match outings unless otherwise approved by your Match Advocate and
Little’s parent/guardian.
· If an
activity involves changing clothes (for example, swimming), there must be
separate changing and showering places.
If you go on an approved overnight, you and your Little must sleep in
separate beds. There are no overnight visits for the first year of the match.
· Never
ask the Little to keep a secret.
· Gift
giving is discouraged, although you might want to buy an occasional gift for
your Little. Seek parental advice about
this first.
· Do not
engage in tickling, wrestling, giving backrubs, or ask your Little to sit on your
lap.
· Seatbelts
should always be worn.
· Bigs
should never drop off a child at a home where no approved adult is present, or
at a location other than where the parent specified.
· Showing
age-inappropriate videos, misusing social media, pornography or sexual material
is not acceptable and is grounds for match termination.
Required reporting of child abuse and neglect
Big Brothers Big
Sisters staff members are required to report any suspected abuse or neglect of
a child. Our staff and volunteers are
trained to respond if a child tells them about abuse. A report will be filed with authorities. If
you have any further questions or would like more information on violence
prevention, please don’t hesitate to ask our staff for additional resources. If at any time you suspect that a child is
being harmed, either within our program or elsewhere, please contact Big
Brothers Big Sisters’ staff.